These jokes aren’t hateful, per se, but they’re just constantly referencing gay, male-on-male sex, and to me, there often seems to be no discernible punchline. I am part of a text chain with these guys, and it is relentless-I rely on my husband to tell me when we have plans with them because I have to mute it unless I want to be inundated. They think it is hysterical to just tack some fellatio-related quip onto every. Here is my (female) problem: He and our gaming friends (all male) have this habit of making gay jokes constantly. My partner and I have been together for six happy years. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column.
